Sexual Experience Skill Levels

Old dogs CAN learn new tricks.

As time goes by, we get set in our ways. We have sex in the same old positions and roles.  We masturbate with the same techniques we've used for decades. Our fantasies remain locked within the framework of our past experiences and imaginings. If we dare to roleplay, we re-cast ourselves as the same characters in the same scenes.

There are activities that can enhance pleasure with yourself, a spouse, individual or multiple partners. Many of these are subtle variations or improvements of the old. But many others are entirely new activities or methods you never thought of.

Lotsa men need to learn how to kiss better, touch more, communicate more clearly, and please their partners more.  Some want to be a better bottom or top for anal sex. For many, their oral sex techniques are way too limited. Can you prolong your orgasm?  Do you know how to cuddle longer and more comfortably? When was the last time you trimed or shaved any of your body hair?  Do you know how to douche?

Many men have raised their own sons and daughters but are still naieve and uncomfortable concerning sexual matters

There's a long list of things to learn: how to use a cock ring, nipple cups or different types of condoms and lubes. New positions can make intercourse more comfortable for you, whether you're a top, bottom or versatile. Pointers can help you to more fully enjoy giving or receiving effective oral sex.

"Toys" such as dildoes, pumps or vibrators can bring new dimensions to your physical enjoyment or help you continue to pleasure a partner after your own erection has subsided. Have you ever used a blindfold, Fleshlight, sling or leather gear?

Realms of fantasy, fetish, light bondage and role play can be layered on top of your enjoyment of new porn sights. Plus, you want to explore these areas in a safe and sane way. So where do you begin?

 You want someone who can tell you things your dad never told you and may never have known himself. You want someone who can answer your questions and concerns without judgements.

I'm that guy.

Bob Patrick