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Mature Massage refers to the empathy, experience and counsel I bring to my many clients who are mid-life and older.

Many changes occur within your body and world as you age, especially through your fifties and beyond. You carry all of these concerns on your shoulders when you come to see me for massage, bodywork and coaching. These stressors contribute to your physical symptoms and also affect you profoundly in countless other ways. My sessions may help you cope with these deep maturation issues.

Mature isn't determined only by your age. It also reflects your experience and accomplishments, accumulated wisdom and perspective, self-identity and physical development.  A man in his teens and twenties may have had to mature more quickly because of family obligations, physical challenges or unexpected crises or trauma. Many men well past 50 still act with a teenager's reckless abandon or have unrealistic expectations of themselves or others. 

Having my ears to listen, my shoulders to rest or cry on, and my arms to hold you can help whether you're young or old. I'm a compassionate and understanding sounding board and may have observations or questions that can help you arrive at some new and useful answers or perspectives.

Sexual Issues

Obtaining a Good Erection

Sexual Orientation

Sexual Experience & Skill Levels

Fantasies and Fetishes

Safer Sex

Family Obligations

Relationship Issues

Obligations to Wife and Children

Aging or Infirmed Parents or Siblings

Deaths of Loved Ones

Finance

Finances and Adjusted Income

Employment and Retirement

Health & Wellness

Illness - Past or Present

Self-esteem and Body Image

Excess Body Weight

Physical Exercise

Addictions

Spiritual Concerns

Guilt

Regret

Religious and Moral Questions

Another Birthday

Aging and Retirement

Accelerated Passage of Time

Additional to referring to my clients, "Mature Massage" also applies to the approach I take with my massage and bodywork: I'm highly-trained, seasoned and intuitive based on more than 40 years of study, life experience, professional and personal relationships.

I'm straightforward and direct about issues of sexuality, pleasure and fetishes.

You can hire a masseur young enough to be my son or grandson (or yours). Or, you can choose a session with someone who is more your peer and shares some of your perspectives.  Ideally, you can afford both me and the hot young masseur, too. 

Although I have a huge love and lust for young men, it's balanced by my enormous affection and respect for men who closer to my age, whether younger or older.

When you visit, we won't talk any longer than necessary on your particular concerns. But we will spend enough time to find out what's hurting you other than a tight neck or sore back. 

Consider some of the issues I've outlined above, then click on any of the windows below to explore the type of session you'd like to book.  I look forward to soothing you soon. 

Sincerely,

Bob Patrick